tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21698605.post8388055988844939970..comments2023-11-05T17:00:29.086+09:00Comments on The Misplaced Man in Japan: When it rains, it pours.NYDhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17182735945473879595noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21698605.post-7020343005390989622008-03-16T10:03:00.000+09:002008-03-16T10:03:00.000+09:00what Anon Boxer said....I love that!what Anon Boxer said....I love that!leeleehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17659647396847327564noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21698605.post-25331204233845173052008-03-16T01:06:00.000+09:002008-03-16T01:06:00.000+09:00I always tell myself that while I can't stop bad t...I always tell myself that while I can't stop bad things from happening... I am in complete control of how it ultimately affects me. Then, I hit a heavy bag for about an hour.Jennyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11280822962202098606noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21698605.post-53258171475373892382008-03-15T19:52:00.000+09:002008-03-15T19:52:00.000+09:00Hey all. Thanks for all the really great comments....Hey all. Thanks for all the really great comments. They have given me much to ruminate upon.<BR/><BR/>I will do my best to turn this into something positive. <BR/><BR/>If you close the book then ya can't read what's between the covers.<BR/><BR/>Will try to post a little more often if I can, but I am sure that you folks understand that I am just a little bit swamped with stuff to take care of.<BR/><BR/>Peace.NYDhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17182735945473879595noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21698605.post-31536189045928065842008-03-15T14:07:00.000+09:002008-03-15T14:07:00.000+09:00Surrender is a decision., the greatest decision th...Surrender is a decision., the greatest decision there is...To trust somebody is a decision. <BR/><BR/>The risk is there. Who knows that the other may be just deceiving...You fall in love with someone, who knows he may murder you in the night , or she may run away with your bank balance ?...<BR/><BR/>But you risk : otherwise love is not possible.<BR/><BR/>Yes, you have to trust people...<BR/>Decision is needed in life, for each moment without decision creates fragmentariness in you. On the contrary, each moment decided, by & by makes you integrated. Through decisions you become decisive...<BR/><BR/>How to deal with betrayal?<BR/><BR/>Hmmmmmmm<BR/><BR/>Just live by the policy that, First, no one is born for other. Then second, no one is here to fulfill the ideals of others as to how he or she should be. Third, you are the master of your own self. You can give as much as you want , but you cannot demand from the other person, because no body is a slave.<BR/><BR/>Once you understand this, dealing with betrayal becomes easy...<BR/><BR/>What? No 55ve?Monahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08615034229525061880noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21698605.post-21951331000282664842008-03-14T13:30:00.000+09:002008-03-14T13:30:00.000+09:00Depends on the severity of the betrayal. Have you ...Depends on the severity of the betrayal. Have you been shanked with a rusty blade in the back or merely clawed by a spork on your wool sweater? Was it Judas or Brutus who attacked you or I Love Lucy. Betrayal requires a setting and circumstances, characters and intentions. Will a few days and some beer make a difference?Corn Doghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00747361708585377105noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21698605.post-22618033886972779242008-03-14T01:55:00.000+09:002008-03-14T01:55:00.000+09:00Trust is a delicate, touchy area. You can't do it...Trust is a delicate, touchy area. You can't do it blindly. Too many times, you get blindsided even when you go into it with your eyes wide open. I think it's one of those areas where you have to tread carefully ... and look out for swords.Serenahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00798532682456165053noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21698605.post-75820824560109184632008-03-14T01:45:00.000+09:002008-03-14T01:45:00.000+09:00I go with my gut and trust in Karma.I go with my gut and trust in Karma.leeleehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17659647396847327564noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21698605.post-69692603195378298742008-03-14T01:37:00.000+09:002008-03-14T01:37:00.000+09:00There are so many people I would like to trust, so...There are so many people I would like to trust, so few that I actually go ahead and do.Ed & Jeannehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00730956006290504616noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21698605.post-86130781375525468582008-03-13T16:11:00.000+09:002008-03-13T16:11:00.000+09:00Et tu, Brute? I was saving this for a blog post, ...Et tu, Brute? <BR/><BR/>I was saving this for a blog post, but what the hell. A girl that I had dated before I had my health problems is getting married on March 15th. She was such a dear friend who flaked out on me when my health went bad. There is something cosmic about it, but I can't quite put my finger on it right now.The Grunthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03845796879498225434noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21698605.post-63574180358578371412008-03-13T09:54:00.000+09:002008-03-13T09:54:00.000+09:00Betrayal...I don't know...I have been betrayed so ...Betrayal...I don't know...I have been betrayed so many times in my life...I know that hatred only eats a hole in my own insides...so these days, I grieve on my own for my misplaced trust (sometimes I grieve in public but disguised as pink) and I just go on. I know that I will never trust them ever again.<BR/><BR/>xx<BR/>pinksPinkhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14002817889549140522noreply@blogger.com